So, you’re looking for 8 ways to be successful in life? I’m sorry to disappoint you, but you’re going to have a tough time. Sure, there are those in life that get lucky and make it to where they need only do what they do to survive, but most people just end up with jobs they don’t like or people that they don’t respect. Here’s what you’ll have to do if you want to succeed in life:

First, stop looking for approval from others. Unless, of course, everyone else around you is also a super success. Your mother, father, best friend, spouse, dog, and co-workers do not have to approve of your endeavors. You alone are the only person who can judge whether you are successful or not. So, if other people say that you should just relax and be happy being who you are, then you have to ask yourself, “Do I really want to be miserable?”

Secondly, get rid of all the negative thoughts in your head. The way to succeed in life is to have fewer and farther between complaints about things in your life. If people hear that you are complaining, then they will be less likely to hire you, give you a raise, or give you any kind of allowance. Instead, you need to work on changing the way you think about things so that you never complain about anything at all.

Third, change your mindset. This means, first, that you need to eliminate all the negative thoughts and beliefs that you have in your head. Do not allow yourself to have any negative feelings towards anyone, including yourself. Believe in yourself and see yourself as successful, confident, capable, etc. At the same time, however, do not allow the reality of life to wear you down. Remember, you are living in a very competitive world, and you will have to persevere through many changes in order to succeed in the end.

Fourth, do not let failure frustrate you. The best way to have success in life is to be fully aware of the fact that you may not be able to accomplish everything that you set out to do. But, with constant reminding yourself of your goals and the determination to reach them, you will find it much easier to get what you want out of life. You must also be fully prepared for setbacks, because although you might not be able to accomplish everything right away, overcoming any setbacks that you come across will definitely help you move forward. You are what you do.

Finally, surround yourself with positive and supportive people. When you surround yourself with like minded individuals who are always supportive and willing to help you achieve something, it will help you tremendously. By having this group of people in your life, it will become much easier for you to achieve anything. These people will encourage you when times are hard, and they will be there to support you in any of your endeavors. In the end, remember that life is not about struggle, but about learning to overcome any obstacles that you may encounter along the way